Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Diversity
That's what was being thought in class today! Everything's like telling me about this issue I'm going through!Okay, the class talked about the differences in people & the consequences of trying to change somebody. I do agree attempting to change somebody will result in the changing somebody's identity.
Well, after being through some relationships I've concluded it's not right to change someone to suit myself. I believe if I love someone, I will, in turn, change myself for that someone... Just like how I want to change for God. Love is about giving & accepting who the other person is. Just look at Jesus.
Compromise & giving each other space may be the way but if you can't, don't think about it! Don't drag because you have feelings & can't let go. It would be wise to be 直截了当 in this case. ;)